Patty told me she was a little nervous this time around. Nervous about how the side effects were going to be. We had both been fighting colds the past week… hey, the family that has colds together… (can’t think of an appropriate ending for that phrase right now.) We were both a little concerned that her cold could interfere with this last infusion. We met with our Oncologist at 9:30 a.m. and everything from her blood work looked great! She had the green light for this last treatment. Everyone in the Oncologist’s office were so excited that this was Patty’s last treatment!
The infusion was scheduled for 10:00 a.m. and everything went smooth as possible. You could tell that Margarita, our oncology nurse, was happy for Patty but also sad in the same sense that this was the end of our dealing with her. We’re hoping to stay connected with her in the future!
I couldn’t let this day go by without some recognition. Her last chemo was just too big to let slip through the cracks! So, over the past week or so, I’ve been sending emails and calling friends and family to come over and help celebrate this big day. Nicole helped me arrange a surprise party for Patty. nothing too big, but just close friends and family. Like I said, Patty’s infusion started on time. I waited about 15 minutes then made up some lame excuse to leave for a short while. (I said I had to return a cable box to the company before we got charged for it.) So I flew home. I stopped by Party Plus and picked up some pink balloons and pink streamers etc. Once home I zoomed around decorating the condo. I should have taken a picture of it, it turned out pretty good! I then zoomed back to the hospital within a short time. (Wow… a lot of zooming going on!) Patty’s treatment ended around 1:30. I had told everyone to be at our house by 1:45. It was great! We got home around 2:00. Patty had no clue that our friends and family were inside. I opened the door… I had a “Congratulations” sign just inside with balloons around it. Patty saw the sign and said “Oh how sweet!” then everyone jumped from their hiding place yelling “Surprise!!!” It was awesome. Patty was very touched that everyone came to congratulate her! She loved it. We had 14 people crammed into our little place… it was perfect!
So, she made it! No more chemo! What a milestone and this woman of mine did such a great job going through it. I’m so proud of her! We’re going to have a challenge from the side effects for the next two weeks or so. Then after that… she’ll get stronger and stronger. Her hair, eyelashes and eyebrows will begin to grow back. Yesterday represented a day that marked the beginning of our new life! We’re both excited to bring in 2011 because it’s going to be such a great new year for us!
This morning when I left for work, Patty was still in bed. I leaned over to give her a kiss and she was crying. I asked if those were good tears or bad tears. She said they were good tears! Good tears because she’s done with her treatments and has so much to look forward to in the future!!!
Another “Mirror Message.” It’s a little hard to read but it says:
“You did it!”